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Galadriel
23 October 2021 @ 09:56 am
Hi Yuletide Writer! Thank you so much for writing for me. I'm so excited!

Please give me a couple more days to finish off my letter. I'm sorry I don't have it up for you yet, but it's really just going to expand on stuff I love about my chosen fandoms, so hopefully the prompts are a good start! <3
 
 
Galadriel
20 October 2018 @ 11:31 pm
Placeholder. Letter is coming ASAP.

...And so is communication with LJ friends I've fallen behind on contacting. I do think about you often and love you regardless! I'm just really struggling to balance offline and online life. I'm sorry. I suck.


(My requests are both Crueltide and Yuleporn friendly!)

Dear Yuletide Writer,

Whomever you are, I want you to know right off the bat that whatever you write for me, I will love it. I already do, because here you are, having signed up to write for a (possible) stranger in a rare fandom that we both share, and that is better than gold.

Please, be reassured that in both my signup and here I'm aiming to provide a number of different prompts that I'd love to see written and that might spark your imagination, and I do not expect you to smush answers to all my questions into one story. Take what works for you and discard the rest.

Additionally, I know it's right there in the rules, but I want to stress that I know the details are optional, and while I've tried to offer a range of characters, pairings and prompts, if none of them excite you, or you're simply not able to make them work, don't worry. I will still be so excited to see a fic written in one of my six chosen fandoms that the rest will just be icing. But if you're looking for a bit more direction, or you just want to know a little more about my preferences, I hope this letter will help. All of my fic – with the exception of much of Words/Silence/Flesh (co-written LotRPF WIP) and some silly email spam parodies – has been archived on AO3.

A little about me...Collapse )

I'm not much of a fannish butterfly, so my Yuletide fandoms of choice tend to stay fairly stable over the years. I try to freshen up those repeat prompts where I can, although of course the things I love about each canon don't change too much. This year is a mix of old (3) and new (3) for me; I've rewritten one of the older prompts entirely, but the other two have stayed the same, mostly because they're preferences developed over time. Just because the prompts are similar/the same from year to year, however, doesn't mean I am less enthused about any of them. They're favourites because I literally cannot get enough of them, and I always enjoy seeing different spins on these themes. With that said, my apologies if you've been assigned to me before; I hope it'll feel more like a happy accident than a disappointment.



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Constantine (TV)...Collapse )

Crimson Peak (2015)...Collapse )

The Exorcist (TV)...Collapse )

Flowers in the Attic - V. C. Andrews...Collapse )

Killjoys (TV)...Collapse )




Ok, hopefully all that helped rather than made things harder. Again, absolutely everything I've said here is optional and up for ignoring, partially or wholesale. After all, it's not like I'm ordering dinner; I'm really just flailing wildly and offering up far too much info.

Thank you again, Yuletide Writer. I'm so very excited about the exchange, and I know I'm going to love whatever you write for me.
 
 
current mood: exhausted
current music: Some ad on TV.
current location: Home

 
 
 
Galadriel
09 October 2017 @ 12:26 am
Dear Yuletide Writer,

Whomever you are, I want you to know right off the bat that whatever you write for me, I will love it. I already do, because here you are, having signed up to write for a (possible) stranger in a rare fandom that we both share, and that is better than gold.

Please, be reassured that in both my signup and here I'm aiming to provide a number of different prompts that I'd love to see written and that might spark your imagination, and I do not expect you to smush answers to all my questions into one story. Take what works for you and discard the rest.

Additionally, I know it's right there in the rules, but I want to stress that I know the details are optional, and while I've tried to offer a range of characters, pairings and prompts, if none of them excite you, or you're simply not able to make them work, don't worry. I will still be so excited to see a fic written in one of my four chosen fandoms that the rest will just be icing. But if you're looking for a bit more direction, or you just want to know a little more about my preferences, I hope this letter will help. All of my fic – with the exception of much of Words/Silence/Flesh (co-written LotRPF WIP) and some silly email spam parodies – has been archived on AO3.

A little about me...Collapse )

I'm going to take a stab at offering up what I love about each fandom (as well as reposting my requests in italics, because in reading around, I see that some people prefer to have the request details repeated in the Yuletide letter; I hope this is helpful).

I'm not much of a fannish butterfly, so my Yuletide fandoms of choice tend to stay fairly stable over the years. I try to freshen up those repeat prompts where I can, although of course the things I love about each canon don't change too much. This year is all old favourites for me, and while I've added to some of the prompts, much of them have stayed the same, because they're preferences developed over time. Just because the prompts are similar/the same from year to year, however, doesn't mean I am less enthused about any of them. They're favourites because I literally cannot get enough of them, and I always enjoy seeing different spins on these themes. With that said, my apologies if you've been assigned to me before; I hope it'll feel more like a happy accident than a disappointment.



The Borgias (2011)...Collapse )

Crimson Peak (2015)...Collapse )

Eastern Promises (2007)...Collapse )

Killjoys (TV)...Collapse )




Ok, hopefully all that helped rather than made things harder. Again, absolutely everything I've said here is optional and up for ignoring, partially or wholesale. After all, it's not like I'm ordering dinner; I'm really just flailing wildly and offering up far too much info.

Thank you again, Yuletide Writer. I'm so very excited about the exchange, and I know I'm going to love whatever you write for me.
 
 
current mood: exhausted
current music: Something on TV
current location: Home with my Fluffage

 
 
Galadriel
08 April 2017 @ 08:54 pm
*sigh* So I understand the LJ servers have finally moved to Russia, and now we're needing to agree to a new TOS just in order to get into our accounts. Given the general... atmosphere of Russia at this point in time, I'm finding myself very uncomfortable with this turn of events.

So... what are we all doing, then? Staying? Going? Not here to notice? -_-

A couple months back, I did something I never thought I'd do, and ported my LJ over to DW. (I haven't posted anything new there, though. It was for security reasons.) For ages now, I've been wanting to get back into the swing of things, pick up where I left off, and post here more often. Engage more often. I miss everyone, I really do. And you've seen my attempts, over and over again, to get back into it.

But I keep failing. Life gets in the way. Work is exhausting. Everything is busy. And then new things happen, and I want to tell everyone, but then the weight of it, of time and distance and the desire to actually say what's gone on comes crashing down around my shoulders, and I go silent again. (Also part of why I'm shitty at email/mail correspondence.)

I'm not sure how to get around this.

And I find myself, this evening, feeling a great sense of melancholy, partially because I am unsettled and uncomfortable with this new state for LJ, and partially because I feel like everyone has drifted regardless of whether I was here or not. I look at my Flist for the first time in far too long (I feel guilty when I look when I'm silent, you know?), and it's a wasteland. Did I lose all you guys? Did you disappear? I... guess I did, except I was here, in some small way, the whole time.

I don't know what I'm trying to say. I'm not sure if there's anyone to say it to.
 
 
current mood: melancholy
current music: TV
current location: Home

 
 
 
Galadriel
18 October 2016 @ 09:33 pm
So I'm being informed tonight that a former friend is rewriting history, once again, and claiming that I said exceptionally offensive things I never, ever did. Gotta love that shit. Not that it's a big surprise, since this former friend has a history of making over events to suit her own narratives and always, always casts herself as the aggrieved party.

Life with her was like being a frog in hot water. You didn't realize how deeply horrible things were until the water was boiling and churning around you. It was one of those situations where the longer things went on, the more it was agree with her every thought and word, or be subject to tirades that went on for days and days. (I am not fucking kidding. Three days of ranting emails every few hours, literally terrorizing me, until I meekly apologized exactly how she wanted me to. I can't even remember what the fuck the argument was about... No, wait, I can. Three days of ranting because I wasn't reading her fic, because I confessed [when pressed] I didn't like how she wrote Sean Bean.)

You know what broke the friendship? She had a separate disagreement with another close friend -- someone whom I both care about a great deal and am perfectly capable of disagreeing with without the whole thing blowing up in either of our faces -- and when she cut her off, she cut me off too.

You know how much I had to do with that argument? Exactly ZERO. I didn't even fucking know about it until it was over.

And you know what I felt when the friendship was over? When she dealt what I'm sure was supposed to be a death blow?

RELIEF.

So here's the truth. Nobody said any bullshit racist things to her. Nobody ran her off from fandom. And here's the shocker. The real, honest-to-god shocker. Both myself and the other friend? We don't make a habit of dragging this shit out in public, because that's what it is. Shit. Pointless vagaries designed to elicit sympathy from kind, unknowing commenters who will fall into the trap because of course they're going to think the best of her.

Of course they are.

Because the water hasn't started to boil just yet.
 
 
current mood: tired
current music: Futurama
current location: Home

 
 
 
Galadriel
09 October 2016 @ 11:40 pm
ETA 10/10/2016: Dearest Yuletide Writer, I know that the assignments are starting to go out today, and my letter is not quite done. It's Thanksgiving here in Canada, and I am unfortunately balancing celebratory preparations with prep for a very long workday tomorrow, so please, please give me a day or two and then come back and look at my letter for extra details. My newer prompts/fandoms are in need of finishing off, here, and I'll be looking over the whole letter one more time to make sure I didn't miss anything. Thank you! If you're a fellow Canuck, Happy Thanksgiving, and if not, Happy Monday!

[Post in progress/will be edited to complete all fields...]


Dear Yuletide Writer,

Whomever you are, I want you to know right off the bat that whatever you write for me, I will love it. I already do, because here you are, having signed up to write for a (possible) stranger in a rare fandom that we both share, and that is better than gold.

Please, be reassured that in both my signup and here I'm aiming to provide a number of different prompts that I'd love to see written and that might spark your imagination, and I do not expect you to smush answers to all my questions into one story. Take what works for you and discard the rest.

Additionally, I know it's right there in the rules, but I want to stress that I know the details are optional, and while I've tried to offer a range of characters, pairings and prompts, if none of them excite you, or you're simply not able to make them work, don't worry. I will still be so excited to see a fic written in one of my six chosen fandoms that the rest will just be icing. But if you're looking for a bit more direction, or you just want to know a little more about my preferences, I hope this letter will help. All of my fic – with the exception of much of Words/Silence/Flesh (co-written LotRPF WIP) and some silly email spam parodies – has been archived on AO3.

A little about me...Collapse )

I'm going to take a stab at offering up what I love about each fandom (as well as reposting my requests in italics, because in reading around, I see that some people prefer to have the request details repeated in the Yuletide letter; I hope this is helpful).

I'm not much of a fannish butterfly, so my Yuletide fandoms of choice tend to stay fairly stable over the years. I try to freshen up those repeat prompts where I can, although of course the things I love about each canon don't change too much. My apologies if you've been assigned to me before; I hope it'll feel more like a happy accident than a disappointment.



The Borgias (2011)...Collapse )

Constantine (TV)...Collapse )

Crimson Peak (2015)...Collapse )

Eastern Promises (2007)...Collapse )

Killjoys (TV)...Collapse )

Lucifer (TV)...Collapse )




Ok, hopefully all that helped rather than made things harder. Again, absolutely everything I've said here is optional and up for ignoring, partially or wholesale. After all, it's not like I'm ordering dinner; I'm really just flailing wildly and offering up far too much info.

Thank you again, Yuletide Writer. I'm so very excited about the exchange, and I know I'm going to love whatever you write for me.
 
 
current mood: hopeful
current music: "Swallowed" (Bush)
current location: Home

 
 
 
Galadriel
The Sons of Gondor Trick or Treat Fiction/Art Exchange

Currently, we have FIVE people signed up for the exchange, and ZERO backup writers/artists. This is significantly lower than previous years. We are absolutely thrilled to have everyone who has signed up so far involved (Thank you so much! You're fabulous and we hope you have a lot of fun! ), and the exchange is going ahead, but we obviously have lots of room for other participants.

If you have been considering signing up, then please do so now. If you know someone who might be interested, then please give them a nudge today. We'll leave signups open until we absolutely have to close them for matching (so sometime tonight OR tomorrow -- PLEASE leave a quick message here if you need time to sign up and are afraid we'll close before you get to it).


Here's the original announcement, if you need a refresher:

It's been fifteen years since The Fellowship of the Ring hit theatres, and we're hoping you'll join us to celebrate this milestone by ramping up the Tolkien love, because...

...It's that time of year again! Now's the time to sign up for the Eleventh Annual Sons of Gondor Trick or Treat Fic/Art Exchange.
    This exchange is open to both fiction and artwork, FPF and RPF, slash (m/m and f/f), het and gen. Single-character pieces, pairings and groups (OT3+) are welcome. Our only requirement is that at least ONE of your requested characters is a son/daughter of Gondor, character or actor. (And if you're only interested in FPF or RPF, not both, we can accommodate that too.)

    Fics should be at least 500 words long, artwork at least a couple hours' work.
Signups are currently open, and go through to Sun. Oct. 2, 11:59 pm Pacific Time. All fiction/art is due Mon. Oct. 24 (11:59 pm Pacific Time), and will be revealed on Sat. Oct. 31. Announcements and updates will be available at sons_of_gondor as the exchange progresses.

We've had a lot of fun in the past, and there's plenty of room for everyone, from die-hard OTPers to people looking to scratch that really rare pairing itch. So no matter what turns your crank, be it Men with Men (or Women with Women, or Men with Women, or Men or Women alone, etc.), Men with Hobbits, with Elves, with Dwarves, Orcs or Ents, so long as one half of the (FPF or RPF) pairing is (loosely) Gondorian, you're welcome in our pool.

So come on over and play with us! Please spread the word, and Happy Trick or Treating!
 
 
current mood: disappointed
current music: The Perfect Girlfriend
current location: -_-

 
 
Galadriel
Signups for the Sons of Gondor Trick or Treat Fiction/Art Exchange Close Sunday!

It's been fifteen years since The Fellowship of the Ring hit theatres, and we're hoping you'll join us to celebrate this milestone by ramping up the Tolkien love, because...

...It's that time of year again! Now's the time to sign up for the Eleventh Annual Sons of Gondor Trick or Treat Fic/Art Exchange.
    This exchange is open to both fiction and artwork, FPF and RPF, slash (m/m and f/f), het and gen. Single-character pieces, pairings and groups (OT3+) are welcome. Our only requirement is that at least ONE of your requested characters is a son/daughter of Gondor, character or actor. (And if you're only interested in FPF or RPF, not both, we can accommodate that too.)

    Fics should be at least 500 words long, artwork at least a couple hours' work.
Signups are currently open, and go through to Sun. Oct. 2, 11:59 pm Pacific Time. All fiction/art is due Mon. Oct. 24 (11:59 pm Pacific Time), and will be revealed on Sat. Oct. 31. Announcements and updates will be available at sons_of_gondor as the exchange progresses.

We've had a lot of fun in the past, and there's plenty of room for everyone, from die-hard OTPers to people looking to scratch that really rare pairing itch. So no matter what turns your crank, be it Men with Men (or Women with Women, or Men with Women, or Men or Women alone, etc.), Men with Hobbits, with Elves, with Dwarves, Orcs or Ents, so long as one half of the (FPF or RPF) pairing is (loosely) Gondorian, you're welcome in our pool.

So come on over and play with us! Please spread the word, and Happy Trick or Treating!
 
 
current mood: pessimistic
current music: Computer Fan
current location: Pessimisimville

 
 
 
Galadriel
14 January 2016 @ 11:59 pm
Thanks for the really lovely welcome back comments on my last post, folks. That was really sweet of you!

Obviously, I'm still stumbling towards making LJ a habit again. Baby steps, right?

Tonight was really nice. brodeurbunny30 gifted me with tickets to a show for my birthday, and to that end, we went to Vertigo Theatre this evening to see an adaptation of Ray Bradbury's Tomorrow's Child.

Tomorrows Child


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High Performance Rodeo pieces tend to lean towards the avant garde, and this was no exception. After the main actors came out into the lobby in labcoats and gave us a little introductory talk, we were encouraged to break ourselves into groups of five, and then when called upon, we were to put on our blindfolds and put our hands on the shoulders of the person in front of us. We were then led inside the theatre and exceptionally gently lead to our seats.

What followed was an hour of really fascinating uses of sound, volume and direction to create the narrative of "Tomorrow's Child." I'd wondered aloud earlier if people unintentionally fell asleep in the performance -- especially since both myself and brodeurbunny30 were pretty damn tired -- but you'd have to be ready to pass out to sleep through that. While the storyline is pretty straightforward, the way they layered dialogue and used sound to create images was just... They did an exceptional job, and it was totally worth it.

We had been directed to take off our masks at the end at the same time as one main character tells another to take them off, and that was the only visual portion (outside of the labcoated folks). It was a really interesting climax for what was an odd, but exceptionally worthwhile experience. (I don't want to give much away, but if you've read "Tomorrow's Child," you know the story. I found, in the end, the experience was far more about how they crafted the story and atmosphere than the actual narrative itself.)

Outside of experiencing the story through sound alone, though, what I also found interesting was the idea that the actors were watching us, rather than the audience watching them. We had been told that if we found the experience too uncomfortable/overwhelming, we were to remove our blindfold, raise our hand, and one of them would come over and escort us out (with no option of returning, presumably to minimize disruptions/not spoil the end reveal). While I didn't really think about them watching us much, the sound system was so good that you could feel vibrations as dialogue and effects moved between speakers, and at one point, there's a series of footfalls as a couple characters walk around, and that was the point that weirded me out the most, since it felt like someone was standing in front of me and just slightly to the left.

Apparently "Tomorrow's Child" is part of a Six Senses series, and next year, they're going to be putting on a performance centered on touch. Provided it's about audiences experiencing textures and not being felt up by actors, I think it might be worth looking into. ^_^

This is the second theatre performance I've been to in about three months, after a long dry spell, and it's honestly a really welcome return (kind of like being on LJ again ^_~). I hope to pay a little more attention to what's playing around town, and actually go to more live performances more often. Totally worth it, and I'm so grateful to brodeurbunny30 for taking me. ^_^
 
 
current mood: impressed
current music: Cartoons. Because it's always cartoons.
current location: 1987-1988...but the FUTURE '80s.

 
 
Galadriel
07 January 2016 @ 09:25 pm
So it's a new year, and while I'm not big on New Year's Resolutions (I find, for me, they don't stick any better or worse than decisions made the rest of the year), I have been thinking that given that I've finally completed my schooling, it's high time to get back into being present and active in fandom, and with the friends I haven't been able to spend as much time with as I would have liked.

So, to that end, I'm going to try to post here at least once a week. Hopefully that will lead quickly to catching up/commenting and generally just renewing old (and fond) ties.

Reading/posting to LJ's a habit, like any other, and I've fallen out of it. I took a similar break when I was finishing off my MA, but this one's been longer. I'd like that not to be the case anymore.

So. Hi. Nice to see you again. ^_^
 
 
current mood: tired
current music: Something on TV? Waiting for something else.
current location: Here. Present. Hopeful.

 
 
 
Galadriel
03 December 2015 @ 09:40 pm
Just a quick pop-in to say thank you so much to everyone who was kind enough to remember my birthday and send good wishes/emails/ficcage! I will be commenting individually ASAP, but I wanted you to know I wasn't intentionally ignoring anyone.

Long story short: I snagged a Winter course at a university, and have been awkwardly and desperately hacking away at an outline/class plan for it, and it's taking longer than I hoped. (Like... weeks.) As soon as I'm done with the outline, I should actually have a little more free time, and I'll be back to thank you personally for your kindnesses.

Please, please know it really touches me to know I haven't been completely forgotten while I've been away/barely around. Thank you for that. Thank you so, so much for that.
 
 
current mood: anxious
current music: "They Made Me a Criminal" (Motive)
current location: Where the Heart is.

 
 
 
Galadriel
12 November 2015 @ 05:15 pm
LotR SeSa 2015: Signups Closing Saturday!
So, it's that time of the year again: time to sign up for the Lord of the Rings Secret Santa exchange! Slash, femslash, het and gen, fic and fanart; you can request it all, so why not join in? (Please note that this is an FPF -- Fictional, not Real Person -- exchange.) We've moved to the AO3 this year, which means you can sign up here. Sign-ups will run until November 14th.
    Important Dates:
    Sign-ups: Nov. 3 to Nov. 14
    Assignments sent out: On or near Nov. 15
    Fic/art due: Dec. 19
    Fic/art posted to the community: Dec. 24

Please make your story more than 500 words (1000 is better). For fanart we'd expect you to spend at least a couple of hours on your work. We're looking forward to the exchange, and hope you are too!

Don't forget that lotr_sesa is open to all the Peoples and Ages of Middle-earth, including those of The Hobbit!

lotr_sesa
SeSa buttonSeSa buttonSeSa button
 
 
current mood: exhausted
current music: "Roe to Perdition" (Frasier)
current location: Somewhere Cold

 
 
 
Galadriel
10 November 2015 @ 03:30 am
(I am so sorry this letter is so late, YT Writer. I have been alternating between very busy and very, very tired in the past few weeks. Please forgive me for my tardiness!)

Dear Yuletide Writer,

Whomever you are, I want you to know right off the bat that whatever you write for me, I will love it. I already do, because here you are, having signed up to write for a (possible) stranger in a rare fandom that we both share, and that is better than gold.

Please, be reassured that in both my signup and here I'm aiming to provide a number of different prompts that I'd love to see written and that might spark your imagination, and I do not expect you to smush answers to all my questions into one story. Take what works for you and discard the rest.

Additionally, I know it's right there in the rules, but I want to stress that I know the details are optional, and while I've tried to offer a range of characters, pairings and prompts, if none of them excite you, or you're simply not able to make them work, don't worry. I will still be so excited to see a fic written in one of my six chosen fandoms that the rest will just be icing. But if you're looking for a bit more direction, or you just want to know a little more about my preferences, I hope this letter will help. All of my fic – with the exception of much of Words/Silence/Flesh (co-written LotRPF WIP) and some silly email spam parodies – has been archived on AO3.

A little about me...Collapse )

I'm going to take a stab at offering up what I love about each fandom (as well as reposting my requests in italics, because in reading around, I see that some people prefer to have the request details repeated in the Yuletide letter; I hope this is helpful).

I'm not much of a fannish butterfly, so my Yuletide fandoms of choice tend to stay fairly stable over the years. Only two of my fandoms this year, however, are ones I've requested before. (I'm just as shocked as anyone reading this who knows me, believe me! ^_^) I try to freshen up those repeat prompts where I can, although of course the things I love about each canon don't change too much. My apologies if you've been assigned to me before; I hope it'll feel more like a happy accident than a disappointment.



The Borgias (2011)...Collapse )

Constantine (TV)...Collapse )

Crimson Peak (2015)...Collapse )

Eastern Promises (2007)...Collapse )

Forever (TV)...Collapse )

Killjoys (TV)...Collapse )




Ok, hopefully all that helped rather than made things harder. Again, absolutely everything I've said here is optional and up for ignoring, partially or wholesale. After all, it's not like I'm ordering dinner; I'm really just flailing wildly and offering up far too much info.

...I should also say that I'm open to a number of the themed Yuletide challenges, including Yuleporn; Crueltide; some crossover requests; and the IF Challenge.

Thank you again, Yuletide Writer. I'm so very excited about the exchange, and I know I'm going to love whatever you write for me.
 
 
current mood: sleepy
current music: Silence
current location: Here, there and everywhere

 
 
Galadriel
Alright.

So I hear through the grapevine that apparently some people are upset that lotr_sesa is moving platforms, from the LJ comm to AO3. It is understandable to be uncomfortable with change. I get that. But the rumours I'm hearing are...surprisingly odd, and nothing we would have anticipated, because they're simply not true. I don't know where it's all going down, I don't know who is saying what, but what I will say, is that if what I'm hearing is true, that people are claiming that moving to the AO3 is somehow unfair to hobbit writers... that's... that's ridiculous.

If you have issues, here's a thought: Come to the mods and talk to us about them, and we will try to smooth the transition the best we can. lotr_sesa has become more inclusive every year it's run, and if there's an under-representation of a particular group of writers/artists, it certainly isn't for lack of trying to get more people involved. (And FYI, we haven't posted any advertisements anywhere outside of the comm and middleearthnews right now, which has always been more prominent in Hobbit parts of fandom than Elves, Men, etc.)

The reasons for the move are exactly what we said in the announcement, but I'll put it even blunter here:

LJ is becoming a smaller and smaller platform. We're losing more participants than we're gaining. And we've had a ton of difficulties breaking into Tumblr culture, where more activity is happening, partially because those newer fans aren't all that interested in using old platforms, partially because Tolkien-based fandoms don't have a lot of new high profile media coming out, and partially because we're just not that high profile over there. Moving to the AO3 gives us a chance to harness the AO3, which has become a hub for multiplatform users. That is the simple fact of things. That is the lay of the land.

Also: Organizing the exchange every year is exhausting. It takes a ton of time, a ton of work, and comes with a rather skewed ratio of work to thanks. That is the reality of any exchange. We do it because despite the work, the actual exchange is lots of fun, we enjoy doing it, it's tradition, and at the very, very least, we can tell people are having fun when they interact with each other on the comments to their stories and art.

Now. There are some major hurdles to the exchange every year, the chief amongst them being matching. If I told you that one or both of the mods ends up in tears every year trying to give everyone the best match we can manage, I would not be lying. And after matching? We are forever on tenterhooks waiting for the other shoe to drop. I cannot recall an exchange in the last few years that hasn't required last minute scrabbling to fix something that broke.

And that, more than the slipping numbers, more than anything else, is why we are moving to AO3: Because the mods want to cry less and cut down the workload. The AO3's automated matching system gives us the opportunity to change matching from a week's worth of angst to a couple hours of nudging things around. It has zero to do with manufactured divisions in our shared Tolkien fandom. It has zero to do with not caring about or actively trying to cut out any particular subsection of fans. We want you involved. I am as livid as I am right now because insisting that lotr_sesa's move to the AO3 is all about cutting out those fans virtually guarantees that there will be less hobbit fans involved. It is cutting off one's nose to spite one's face, and I cannot understand it. At all.

So, you know... Thanks for that, I guess?

We love having every single person involved. We really, really do. We love your submissions, we love your enthusiasm, we are totally willing to do all the scut work so we can all be part of a multi-year holiday tradition. But I gotta say this: The choices now are to take advantage of the AO3 and keep the exchange running (on what is its third platform, btw, so we're not even setting a precedent), or retire the whole thing. It no longer makes sense to do all the behind-the-scenes work by hand when we can cut our workload in half (or even more than that).

Earlier today, empy and I even had a conversation where we were really pleased that everyone seemed to be taking to the move comfortably, that people were helping each other out with invite codes in the comments on our posts, that people were sharing the news that we were open... In short, that everyone was taking it well, taking what we said at face value (because that's it, folks, the reasons listed are it; there's no secret, hidden persecution going on, not from either of your mods, who, btw, have individually written across the spectrum of pairings and M-E Peoples throughout SeSa), and seemed to understand where we were coming from. And thank you, from the bottom of my heart, to everyone who is supporting the move. You reinforce why we do this each year, why we enjoy it, and why we love seeing you back (or participating for the first time)!

Hearing now, that instead of talking to us or bringing up concerns, people are seeking reasons to be upset and breaking away is pretty disappointing. I don't know what to say or do about it, I really don't. People will get upset about anything, I suppose, and we can only do our best to be clear about why things need to happen, even if they're not what everyone wants.

And you know, I'm really sorry if you're breaking away from SeSa specifically because of the changeover. That's really disappointing, because it just divides a shrinking fandom even more. If you change your mind, if later in the signup period, or next year, or down the road you want to participate again, then you are more than welcome. We will be thrilled to have you back. (The only proviso being that we're still operating, of course.) And if you decide this year you want to participate in SeSa and whatever other new alternative is out there, then we will love you all the more. ♥

And if that's not the case, if you're done with us because... because of something that has absolutely nothing to do with the shift in platforms, or the (more or less successful) efforts we've put in to be inclusive, or anything that is based on something we, as mods, haven't outright stated, then I can only wish you luck out there, and say I'm sorry to see you go.

It definitely makes me feel as if once I'm able to post announcements in a day or so in the hobbit spaces of LJ that I won't be welcome, and SeSa won't either, and that seems to be completely contrary to what the complaint is in the meantime, don't you think?



ETA: So it's starting to sound like it's not the move, per se, that's got up people's noses, it's just a chance to air grievances that the mods were unaware were at issue and that we haven't been directly made aware of (and thus couldn't fix). That's a shame, and it's still really damn disheartening, especially since we've done our best, this entire time, to make sure everyone enjoyed the exchange.

But you know, as I'm being reminded, the important part is that more people enjoy SeSa than don't, and that's what matters. For everyone who reminded me of that, and everyone who has ever been understanding/kind/tactful/patient when they've encountered hiccups, or has just been an enthusiastic and positive participant, thank you. ♥ You're the reason why SeSa keeps on keeping on.



ETA2: So I've actually read the comments in question now, and they're fewer in number and milder than I expected, which is nice (and goes to show that it's better to take a step back and not necessarily trust second-hand accounts about the severity or number of something until you've checked it out yourself), although I note that we don't have a record of one of those complaints ever actually happening -- and I suspect that they're thinking of another exchange, since the person in question signed up once two years ago and never returned, and their issue was with last year; and another person complained about something that was definitely for an entirely different exchange, given that they linked directly to the fic, and it said right on it what exchange it was for, so... yeah. And like I said, we have only ever been able to work with what we are given by participants. If there's an issue and you don't bring it up with the mods, there is literally nothing we can do about it. We're not mind-readers, we don't own a time machine, and we can't actually control other participants outside of the very mild threat of being banned in future years. ...And on the mind-reading thing, we certainly can't know that when you say you'll write X, you didn't mean X-1 if you didn't say "No X-1" and then don't tell us, even after the fact, that you didn't mean X-1.

(And just an FYI for folks out there: When you link to an entry in a post, whether it's a personal LJ or a comm, unless that person/comm has specifically turned off those kind of notifications, they get a notice that that entry has been mentioned. And that means that when you then do a 180 and start complaining in comments, there's a better than average chance that the people you're complaining about know. So, you know, probably best for everyone if you're aware of that. Saves headaches and hurt feelings all around.)

So I'm done with this now. Good luck on your new ficathon, and know that you're still welcome in our spaces, but do me a favour next time, and if it's an actual issue that can be solved by the mods? Bring it directly to us. We have always tried to work in good faith, and it's really disappointing to not have that good faith returned.
 
 
current mood: disappointed
current music: Meh.
current location: Also Meh.

 
 
 
Galadriel
I swore to myself there wasn't going to be an extension this year, but due to circumstances outside my control, there's going to be a slight delay in getting the matchups done for the Sons of Gondor Trick or Treat Fiction/Art Exchange (in that I'm not going to be able to begin matching tonight as planned, unfortunately), so if you haven't signed up and want to slip in at the last minute, please feel free to do so. In truth, I would absolutely welcome more signups. ^_^

I'll be leaving signups open until I get to the matching stage, which will either be sometime late tomorrow or Saturday. Unless the AO3 physically prevents you from being able to sign up, you're welcome to do so. But if you're kicking yourself for missing the deadline and worried I'll close it while you're trying to enter your information, leave me a message, either on this SoG post or via email (galadriel AT shaw DOT ca) and I'll keep an eye out for you.
 
 
current mood: frustrated
current music: "Hot Pursuit" (Frasier)
current location: The Seventh Circle of Hell

 
 
Galadriel
We currently have 5 signups. There's plenty of room for more!



Signups for the Sons of Gondor Trick or Treat Fiction/Art Exchange Closing Soon!

It's that time of year again! Now's the time to sign up for the Tenth Annual Sons of Gondor Trick or Treat Fic/Art Exchange.
    This exchange is open to both fiction and artwork, FPF and RPF, slash, femslash, het and gen. Single-character pieces, pairings and groups (OT3+) are welcome. Our only requirement is that at least ONE of your requested characters is a son/daughter of Gondor, character or actor. (And if you're only interested in FPF or RPF, not both, we can accommodate that too.)

    Fics should be at least 500 words long, artwork at least a couple hours' work.
Signups are currently open, and go through to Wed. Sept. 23rd, 11:59 pm Pacific Time. All fiction/art is due Sat. Oct. 24th (11:59 pm Pacific Time), and will be revealed on Sat. Oct. 31. Announcements and updates will be available at sons_of_gondor as the exchange progresses.

We've had a lot of fun in the past, and there's plenty of room for everyone, from die-hard OTPers to people looking to scratch that really rare pairing itch. So no matter what turns your crank, be it Men with Men (or Women with Women, or Men with Women, or Men or Women alone, etc.), Men with Hobbits, with Elves, with Dwarves, Orcs or Ents, so long as one half of the (FPF or RPF) pairing is (loosely) Gondorian, you're welcome in our pool.

So come on out and play with us! Please feel free to spread the word, and Happy Trick or Treating!
 
 
current mood: disappointed
current music: Border Security
current location: Here

 
 
 
Galadriel
Apparently I've forgotten how tough it can be to slip back in the habit of LJ! *scuffs toe* I'm still around, just struggling to get back into the swing of things.

Regardless, I hope people are interested in participating in sons_of_gondor's tenth exchange! It's a milestone, to be sure, and (as always) I'd love to see it do well. Sign-up time is a little shorter this year, so don't delay!




Signups for the Sons of Gondor Trick or Treat Fiction/Art Exchange Now Open!

It's that time of year again! Now's the time to sign up for the Tenth Annual Sons of Gondor Trick or Treat Fic/Art Exchange.
    This exchange is open to both fiction and artwork, FPF and RPF, slash (m/m and f/f), het and gen. Single-character pieces, pairings and groups (OT3+) are welcome. Our only requirement is that at least ONE of your requested characters is a son/daughter of Gondor, character or actor. (And if you're only interested in FPF or RPF, not both, we can accommodate that too.)

    Fics should be at least 500 words long, artwork at least a couple hours' work.
Signups are currently open, and go through to Wed. Sept. 23, 11:59 pm Pacific Time. All fiction/art is due Sat. Oct. 24 (11:59 pm Pacific Time), and will be revealed on Sat. Oct. 31. Announcements and updates will be available at sons_of_gondor as the exchange progresses.

We've had a lot of fun in the past, and there's plenty of room for everyone, from die-hard OTPers to people looking to scratch that really rare pairing itch. So no matter what turns your crank, be it Men with Men (or Women with Women, or Men with Women, or Men or Women alone, etc.), Men with Hobbits, with Elves, with Dwarves, Orcs or Ents, so long as one half of the (FPF or RPF) pairing is (loosely) Gondorian, you're welcome in our pool.

So come on over and play with us! Please spread the word, and Happy Trick or Treating!
 
 
current mood: hopeful
current music: TV
current location: Planet Earth

 
 
 
Galadriel
19 May 2015 @ 12:55 pm
...I guess you can all now call me "Doctor Galadriel." ^_~

Thank you for all the good wishes! They definitely helped. <3

The exam went extremely smoothly, better than I could have hoped. It was only an hour long, which was a surprise, since I was prepared for two hours minimum, and ready for a longer haul. But it was a really friendly room (two of three examiners in attendance, plus the Chair), with no major concerns, and they ran out of questions to ask. (And with very few exceptions, they were questions I already had prepared answers to.)

Then I left the room so they could talk to my supervisor (one was present, the other is currently on Research Leave, and not in the country). She came out 5 minutes later, then we waited for another 10 minutes while they finalized their recommendations, and then they asked us back in.

That was when they told me that I'd been granted my PhD, and all they were expecting is for me to clean up some typos that slipped past me. Everything else? Optional, or as one examiner put it, "Oh, those changes are for the book!" O_o The other examiner said that it was an afternoon's work, max.

...I literally could not believe it. At all. I was so braced for 6 more months of work or something. This? I have until June 17th to fix it up, so I'll be actually doing that in the next couple days.

My supervisor tells me that during their consultation with her they said that I was incredibly impressive, and they both told me directly that they really, really enjoyed reading my thesis (both content- and writing-wise). The Chair actually said that while he's moderated lots of these exams, and they tend to be more or less interesting (the Chairs are always from an unrelated discipline), he really enjoyed this one and is going to look up Edward Gorey later because now he's interested! My supervisor also told me that my exam went extremely well, very smoothly, and that she's never seen such a clean pass! ^_^ So that's all really encouraging stuff.

Afterwards, my father and I went to my supervisor's for dinner, which was nice, and while we came back to the hotel fairly early in the evening, once we were there, I collapsed. I don't think I was aware how tired I was until after everything was over, when all the preparation and stress of the day dissipated. ...Weirdly, though, I never felt that nervous in the lead-up, at least not for more than a minute or two here and there.

So, yup. I walked into a friendly exam room, the process was surprisingly pleasant (and short) and I've been granted my PhD! Woo and stuff! *snort* ^_~

Hello, again, LJ! I've missed you!
 
 
current mood: accomplished
current music: Adventure Time
current location: Away

 
 
 
Galadriel
18 May 2015 @ 01:08 am
...If you are so inclined, think good thoughts for me around 3:30am UTC (GMT/Zulu) Time, Monday May 18th, 2015, ok? That's, um, soon. Just over 14 hours from when I posted this.

Tunnel? Check.

Light at the end or train? We'll see.

(I mean, it's not gonna be over, not yet. There will be revisions, because of course there will be. The extent remains to be seen. But still, we're getting close. Oh, so close to done.)
 
 
current mood: nerdy
current music: The Flash (the old series)
current location: It's probably obvious to those who have been following along.

 
 
Galadriel
04 December 2014 @ 12:54 am
Hey guys,

Just a quick check in to say thank you so, so much for the wonderful birthday wishes. I was so touched that some of you remembered and were kind enough to say so, when I've been so very scarce over the last... well, far too long.

I want you to know I've seen (and read) them all -- emails, ecards, straight up kind wishes and fic(!!!) -- and I have been so very pressed for time, that I haven't been able to sit down and thank you properly. Please, please hold on and grant me a tiny space more of patience, because I do want to comment/answer you, and I will.

I can't stress enough how touched I am that you remembered and took the time to let me know.

I'm thinking of you all, and hoping that life is treating you well.

Be back soon! (I hope! I should be! OMG, there is light at the end of the tunnel! I can see it!)
 
 
current mood: exhausted
current music: Some Xmas Movie.
current location: Looking for my head to return to my shoulders.