In classical physics the evolution of a measurable quantity $x$ is described by a function $x(t)$ such that if you measure $x$ at time $t$ you get the result $x(t)$.
In quantum physics the evolution of a measurable quantity is described by a matrix. The eigenvalues are the possible results of measuring that quantity and quantum theory predicts the probability of each outcome.
In many experiments the probabilities of the outcomes are affected by what happens in all of the possible states: this is called interference. For an example, see section 2 of this paper:
https://arxiv.org/abs/math/9911150
But in everyday life when you walk through a doorway you don't see effects from all of the possible ways you might have walked through the door. Some physicists proposed that all of the possible outcomes except one go away somehow and called the alleged process that does this collapse. It was and is very rare for people talking about collapse to describe how it actually works, but some physicists are working on theories that explicitly include collapse:
https://arxiv.org/abs/2310.14969
Quantum theory itself predicts that when you copy information out of a quantum system interference is suppressed. This is called decoherence:
https://arxiv.org/abs/1911.06282
Any object you see in everyday life has information copied out of it on scales of space and time smaller than those over which they change significantly so on those scales interference is negligible. Note that decoherence is part of quantum theory without collapse so collapse is unnecessary for decoherence.
Also, decoherence is a process that takes place over time and it can be used to describe unsharp, continuous and repeated measurements that are common in real labs. Collapse theories don't currently do this
https://arxiv.org/abs/1911.06282
It is true that collapse theories has a low probability to kick a particle so that it is far from the peak of the probability and this may have measurable effects:
https://philsci-archive.pitt.edu/11350/
https://arxiv.org/abs/1407.4746
It should also be noted that almost all experimentally tested predictions of quantum theory involve relativistic effects and collapse theories don't currently reproduce those predictions:
https://arxiv.org/abs/2205.00568
It is not correct to say the main problem with collapse theories is about particle kicks. Such theories have a wide range of serious unsolved problems, not the least of which is the lack of any explanation of what problem they solve that isn't already solved by decoherence or other mechanisms in quantum theory without collapse.
You claim that collapse many of the mysteries of quantum theory but provide no examples of those mysteries or how they are solved. There is another theory you can look at to understand quantum theory and to understand how the world works: it is called quantum theory.