I have found StackOverFlow answers and other resources saying that you can click on a hidden ASP:Button with jQuery by
$("#<%=HiddenButton.ClientID%>").click(); or
$("#<%=HiddenButton.ClientID%>").trigger("click"); However, neither of these are working for me UNLESS the button is Visible="true"
Here is the button:
<asp:Button ID="loadCustomerContacts" runat="server" OnClick="loadCustomerContacts_Click" visible="false" />"