In Memory of Kay Dekker, mhw 15th September 1959 - 7th July 2011
He fell asleep reading a book, and just didn't wake up. I'm sure this is the way he would have wanted to go.
Just much, much later. - Justin, Kay's partner of 19 years
Kay had so many friends, in so many communities, that he was the only person who knew them all. He gathered friends the way other people gather dirt under their boots - easily, effortlessly, and sometimes in difficult circumstances.
This community has been set up to allow Kay's friends from all over the world to share their memories. And, perhaps, for those who wish they might have met Kay in life to learn a bit about what he was like.