How to defend against those 3 techniques:
CreateRemoteThread
#CreateRemoteThread# YouYou can prevent the first technique (CreateRemoteThread which calls LoadLibrary) by hooking LoadLibrary. In your hook you check against a list of DLL names that you know are part of the process and that may be loaded, or you can check against a list of known DLLs you don't want to load.
When you find a DLL you don't want to load SetLastError(ERROR_ACCESS_DENIED) then return NULL. I set the last error so that people that write code looking for an error code get one. This appears to work, perhaps a different code may be more appropriate.
That will stop the DLL from loading.
SetWindowsHookEx
#SetWindowsHookEx# II think the same technique for CreateRemoteThread blocking will work for SetWindowsHookEx, but only if you can get your hook installed before the SetWindowsHookEx technique has started loading its code (which is typically when the first Window is created in an app - so early in its lifetime).
Code Cave
#Code Cave# NiceNice technique. Not seen that before. You can defend against this, but you'll have to hook the LoadLibrary entry point (not the IAT table) as the Code Cave calls LoadLibrary directly.
As the author of the article commented - there are many ways you can be attacked and you probably will have a hard time defeating them all. But often you only want to defend against certain DLL loads (such as a particular 3rd party DLL that is incompatible with your software because the 3rd party DLL wasn't written properly to accomodate the fact that another hook may also be present, so you block it from loading).