I've wasted about 20 mins trying to set tab size too. Here is the solution:
I. Open:
/etc/joe/joerc
II. Find row containing -tab nnn and change it to:
-tab 4
(I assume that you want to change tab size to 4. If you want different value, please replace all the 4s with your value)
III. Find -istep nnn and change it to:
-istep 4
IV. Save & exit
This will set tab size 4 for files WITHOUT extension. If you want to change tab size for files with common extensions like *.java:
I. open /etc/joe/ftyperc
II. Find your extension, for example *.java. Initially it looks like:
JAVA *.java -autoindent -syntax java -smarthome -smartbacks -purify -cpara >#!;*/%
III. You have to comment (insert tab before it) -autoindent and add -istep 4 bellow -cpara. It should look like:
JAVA *.java -autoindent -syntax java -smarthome -smartbacks -purify -cpara >#!;*/% -istep 4