When you install TeX Live, there is a bunch of path settings that you can modify:
<D> directories: TEXDIR (the main TeX directory): /usr/local/texlive/2011 TEXMFLOCAL (directory for site-wide local files): /usr/local/texlive/texmf-local TEXMFSYSVAR (directory for variable and automatically generated data): /usr/local/texlive/2011/texmf-var TEXMFSYSCONFIG (directory for local config): /usr/local/texlive/2011/texmf-config TEXMFVAR (personal directory for variable and automatically generated data): ~/.texlive2011/texmf-var TEXMFCONFIG (personal directory for local config): ~/.texlive2011/texmf-config TEXMFHOME (directory for user-specific files): ~/texmf
You can easily change TEXMFHOME during installation to point to your desired destination like ~/Library/texmf with both command-line and GUI installer. If you are already past that point, you can find a file texmf.cnf on top level folder where you installed TeX Live (next to texmf-whatever trees). If not, just create a new one. Change (or create) the line with TEXMFHOME to:
TEXMFHOME = ~/Library/texmf
MacTeX sets (redefines) the following variables inside texmf.cnf:
% (Public domain.) % ... TEXMFHOME = ~/Library/texmf TEXMFVAR = ~/Library/texlive/2011/texmf-var TEXMFCONFIG = ~/Library/texlive/2011/texmf-config
You could do the same if you want identical locations as in MacTeX, but I would not advise you to touch TEXMFVAR after installation is over or at least you should better move folders from old location to the new one.
For personal installation I would advise you to select the portable installation anyway and only change TEXMFHOME.
Please note that Alan Munn's suggestion with
> tlmgr conf texmf TEXMFHOME "~/Library/texmf:~/texmf" setting texmf TEXMFHOME to ~/Library/texmf:~/texmf (in /path/to/your/texlive/texmf.cnf)
does exactly the same (except the triviality that it sets search path to two different folders) in a user-friendly way, provided that you can remember that command. I find it easier to simply edit the configuration file (or reinstall TeX Live if I screw up other settings as well :).
install-tl? I hate to tell you this, but installing MacTeX might be faster than solving this problem. (Especially since 99% of Mac users have MacTeX and therefore little experience with the basic TL install.)