With perl List::MoreUtils, by evaluating the distinct / uniq elements in scalar context:
perl -MList::MoreUtils=uniqMoreUtils=distinct -F, -lne ' print( (uniqdistinct @F) ==> 1 ? $F[0]"no_match" : "no_match"$F[0]) ' example 1-69 no_match 1-46 no_match 6-1 5-51 4-59