Without modifying any settings or configuration on my Tumbleweed install, SDDM seems to be remembering the last session that I used (which was Plasma on Wayland). This behavior may be what you're looking for!
Also this may be a non-issue soon, as KDE Plasma 6 will be Wayland by default. This means it likely will also eventually be the default KDE session provided by distributions such as Tumbleweed.
But, if neither of the above work and you really want to fix it before Plasma 6 launches, you can also try your hand at modifying the configuration file at /etc/sddm.conf (or /etc/sddm.conf.d/kde-settings.conf if you selected "Apply KDE settings to SDDM" in system settings). If mis-configured, this may break SDDM, so I would first suggest making a backup of your current configuration somewhere you remember, then copying over your changes as you experiment with settings. If all else fails, or you didn't take a backup beforehand, you can regenerate the default SDDM config again with sddm --example-config > path to .conf file you modified above.
The ultimate goal of updating the above config would be to display /usr/share/wayland-sessions/plasmawayland.desktop as the default selected option, which itself launches the plasma wayland session with /usr/bin/startplasma-wayland. To do this, a list of available settings for SDDM can be found in the SDDM GitHub page for the config file: https://github.com/sddm/sddm/blob/v0.20.0/data/man/sddm.conf.rst.in.