The picture on top you can see my xterm, the picture under is the gnome-terminal.

Ok This is what I want to get:

I use the same font in both but looks different:

Xterm*faceName: DejaVu Sans Mono Bold:size=11:antialias=true 

how can I fix this?

//EDIT

add more info of my xterm:

ldd `which xterm` | grep -E '(freetype|fontconfig)' libfontconfig.so.1 => /usr/lib64/libfontconfig.so.1 (0x00007f07bcbcc000) libfreetype.so.6 => /usr/lib64/libfreetype.so.6 (0x00007f07bb2f3000) 

my .Xdefaults

!XTerm*background: #2D2D2D XTerm*background: #FFFFDD !XTerm*foreground: #D2D2D2 XTerm*scrollBar: off XTerm*vt100*geometry: 88x24 Xterm*faceName: DejaVu Sans Mono Bold:size=11 XTerm*renderFont: true