How can current flow in an AC-inductor circuit if the source voltage is always exactly countered by the inductor's back-EMF?
The voltage across the terminals of an inductor can be divided into two parts. One part is the inductive EMF, and the other part is the voltage drop due to the winding resistance. Let's call these two components \$\mathscr{E}_L\$ and \$V_R\$. Let's also call the terminal voltage cross the inductor \$V_T\$ Then
$$V_T = \mathscr{E}_L + V_R$$
When one first applies a voltage to an unenergized inductor, the current through the inductor is 0, so \$V_R = 0\$. So, the terminal voltage is equal to the inductive EMF. Since the inductive EMF is non-zero, the current through the inductor must be changing according to the equation
So, when a voltage is first applied, it is both the case that the current is 0, and the current is changing. Therefore, a moment after voltage is first applied, the current will be non-zero.
One might incorrectly assume that current must first be flowing through the conductor before an EMF will be established, but this is incorrect.
One might also incorrectly assume that the difference between the terminal voltage and the inductive EMF must be non-zero for current to flow or for it to be changing. Both of these options are also incorrect. The difference between the terminal voltage and the inductive EMF is the voltage drop due to the winding resistance.
If the winding resistance were 0, either as an ideal component, or as a superconductor, and a constant voltage were applied across the inductor, the current would increase linearly. In the case of a superconductor, I believe the magnetic field around the superconducting wire would eventually reach a point where the winding ceased to be superconducting.
In the case of a real non-superconducting inductor, as the current increases in the inductor, \$V_R\$ will increase. If \$V_T\$ is held constant, then \$\mathscr{E}_L\$ will diminish over time, approaching 0.
I don't understand how a current can begin to flow if KVL guarantees that the source is immediately countered by the back-EMF from the moment of connection, unless the statement that "there needs to be a nonzero net voltage in a circuit to initiate current flow" is not true...
If by "net voltage" you mean the difference between the applied voltage and the inductive EMF, then the statement "there needs to be a nonzero net voltage in a circuit to initiate current flow" is not true.
By KVL, the applied voltage is the terminal voltage across the inductor, and the difference between the terminal voltage an the inductive EMF is just the resistive voltage drop of the winding. Whatever the value of that voltage drop, if the the inductive EMF is non-zero, then the current in the inductor must be changing. If the current at time t is 0, but is changing, then a moment later, the current will be non-zero. That is, current flow will be "initiated".
From a comment
I acknowledge that the differential equation is, in reality, accurate even in this case. My question is about why, taking KVL for granted, this equation holds when there is no existing current in the circuit. Specifically, why is the EMF given by $-L\frac{dI}{dt}$ in this case if we know that a current is only motivated by a potential difference, and that the net voltage in the circuit is zero?
I believe here you may be using "potential difference" in the same way you used "net voltage" before, i.e. the difference between the applied voltage and the inductive EMF. But again, this difference is just the voltage drop due to winding resistance. Even if this value is 0, current will be "motivated" to flow if there is a non-zero EMF in the inductor.
Consider a circuit that consists of a 1 V ideal voltage source and a 100 \$\Omega\$ resistor.

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One might say that a 10 mA current flows through the resistor "as a result of the 1 V voltage drop across the resistor".
Now consider a circuit that consists of an ideal 10 mA current source and a 100 \$\Omega\$ resistor.

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One might, with equal justification say that the 1 V drop across the resistor is the result of the 10 mA flowing through it. Whether current or voltage drop is a "result" of the other is perhaps not so cut and dried.
Now let's consider a third circuit.

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If the switch and wires are ideal, and the switch is closed, there is no voltage across the resistor. Now what happens if the switch were to be opened? We know in reality that 1 V will appear across the resistor. However, if we reasoned that "at the moment that the switch is opened, there is no voltage drop across the resistor, therefore, there is nothing "motivating" current to flow through it", we would fall into error. The current that definite will flow through the resistor, ensures that a voltage drop will appear. As best as I was able to come up with an analogy for what I think is a/the mistake in your conceptualization, the example I just gave is that analogy.
It is much safer to stick with equations that are known to be true, than to second guess them with possibly mistaken ideas about what causes what, and what is the result of what.
The equation
$$\mathscr{E}_L = \frac{dI}{dt}$$
holds. (Possibly with a minus sign). So if there is a inductive EMF present, there must be a changing current. Any theory about cause and effect must conform to that.
The magnetic field in the inductor is proportional to the current through the inductor. So, as the magnetic field increases, so does the IR voltage drop within the inductor. I mention this because another answer seems to say something different, i.e.
The changing magnetic field initially develops due to the ohmic current flow through the practical inductor's distributed series resistance. As the magnetic field builds, the back EMF voltage reduces the \$V=IR\$ current flow.
I'm not sure I understand what is being said. I don't know if "the \$V=IR\$ current flow" is supposed to be anything different from the total current through the circuit. If it is something different, I don't know what. If it is not something different, it seems to in contradiction to the fact that the magnetic field is proportional to the total current, and so the two grow together, i.e. one does not grow while the other is reduced.
The same answer also contains the statement:
The transient effect you're trying to understand really can't make sense in a perfect, ideal inductor that has no series resistance
to which I also object. The behavior of ideal inductors does make sense. The applied voltage is always equal to the inductive EMF. A non-zero inductive EMF implies that the magnitude of the current is changing, according to the formula
$$\mathscr{E}_L = \frac{dI}{dt}$$