Feature/gobot update eventer

[youshibin]

This PR is a continuation of #980, which appears to have been abandoned.

Solved issues and/or description of the change

The following is a translation from the original PR:

Hello, I encountered some issues during project development and hope to make the following adjustments:
• Allow customizing the channel length of the eventer.
• Allow defining the number of goroutines consuming the out channel to implement a multi-consumer model.
• When a callback function triggers a panic, output the error through a crash event.

Please review the code and check if the modifications are appropriate.

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Manual test

• OS and Version (Win/Mac/Linux):
• Adaptor(s) and/or driver(s):
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Checklist

• The PR's target branch is 'hybridgroup:dev'
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• New and existing unit tests pass locally with my changes (e.g. by run make test_race)
• No linter errors exist locally (e.g. by run make fmt_check)
• I have performed a self-review of my own code

If this is a new driver or adaptor:

• I have added the name to the corresponding README.md
• I have added an example to see how to setup and use it
• I have checked or build at least my new example (e.g. by run make examples_check)

If this is a Go version update:

• go.mod to new version updated
• modules updated (go get -u -t ./...)
• CI files updated
• linter setting and linter version (if a newer one exist) updated
• linter issues fixed or suppressed by config

If this is a PR for release:

• The PR's target branch is 'hybridgroup:release'
• I have adjusted the CHANGELOG.md (or already prepared and will be merged as soon as possible)