There are a couple questions on this site that seem to be asking "the same" question, but I'm asking about the category theory version.
Let $\mathcal{C}$ be a lextensive category. A subobject $R \hookrightarrow Y$ is complemented if there is a subobject $R' \hookrightarrow Y$ such that the induced map $R+R' \rightarrow Y$ is an isomorphism. Moreover, a subobject of $X \times X$ is called a relation, and a relation $r : R \hookrightarrow X \times X$ is symmetric if the arrow $$ R\overset{r}{\rightarrow} X \times X \overset{\sigma}{\rightarrow} X \times X $$ factors through $r$ (where $\sigma =\langle \pi_2, \pi_1 \rangle$ is the arrow swapping the components).
It seems reasonable that if $R$ is symmetric, then $R'$ should be too. But I can't seem to work out a proof (I don't see what you could use to build a map $R' \rightarrow R'$), and I can't find a mention of this in my references.
