Ruby, 53 5555 52 bytes
f=->(a,b){/^(2|too2|t[wo]?|t0|twoo|t0)$/i=~a&&/^^b(be{,2}|b3e?e?|3)$/i=~b} I'll be honest, this is my first attempt at trying to golf a problem.
Function call in the form of f.call(firstValue, secondValue)
0 is Truthy, nil is Falsy.