From what I've been taught in school, the well-ordering principle states that every non-empty set must have a least element. To me, the least element of some set $X$ is an element $a$ such that, for all $a \in X$, $a < x$.
This principle makes to me sense for most sets, but it not for a set with one element, as a consequence of my own definition of a least element. Say $X$ is a set with $1$ element. By the well-ordering principle, $X$ must have a least element, so there must be an $a \in S$ such that, $\forall x \in X$, $a < x$. But that can't be, since the only element in $X$ is $a$, and to say that $a$ is less than all elements in $X$ would be saying $a < a$, which is impossible! So, by this notion, $X$ does not have a least element.
This leads me to think that a set should have at least two elements in order for the well-ordering principle to apply--that way, two elements could be compared with respect to their sizes. However, whenever I share this with my peers and professors, they tend to regard my deduction as "wrong" somehow, without sufficiently explaining why.
The closest I have gotten to understanding why the well-ordering principle applies to sets with only one element is looking at the axiom of choice, which if I'm not mistaken is equivalent to the well-ordering principle. According to Wikipedia, the axiom of choice reads:
"For any set $X$, there exists a binary relation $R$ which well-orders $X$. This means $R$ is a linear order on $R$ such that every nonempty subset of $R$ has a member which is minimal under $R$."
Looking into the definition of a linear order, its first axiom is $a \leq a$. At first, I thought this might satisfy my question, but looking closer at the definition, there is still a concept of a "minimum," which to me does not make sense without at least two elements, for the reasons given prior. Moreover, the definition of a well-order seems to rely on the notion of a least element, which again brings me back to my prior confusion.
So, is there anything wrong with my reasoning? Is my definition of the well-ordering principle or of a least element of a set flawed, or different than that of what most people have? Why is it that the well-ordering principle applies for all non-empty sets, and not just for sets with at least two elements?