Questions tagged [relationships]
Questions related to personal relationships in a work context.
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What does "above and beyond" look like for a software role? [closed]
I'll be transferring to a new team in two months, and did not hit it off with my new boss. Quite the opposite, actually. This team was not my first choice, and it became known to my boss that my ...
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Is this guy's behaviour reasonable? [closed]
A guy at work was generally helpful and pleasant to everyone, often offering support. He had been especially close with a married woman he seemed to have a crush on—something that was obvious to ...
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Colleagues mad for 'exposing' their secret relationship
I work for a Dutch enterprise, and in the last 6 months, I've been working on a project with Alice (F) and Bob (M), both in their late twenties (so am I). Bob is a vendor's employee, but Alice is my ...
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Everyone hates this Key Account Manager, but company won't act
As a background, I am an executive in the Engineering and Operations field. In the last few months, several employees from different roles (Accountants, Project Managers, Engineers, and two separate ...
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If your coworkers do not tell you that your hair is messed up, could this be a sign that they do not like you?
Over the years, there were times when it was very windy out and when I walked into my workplace from the parking lot, my hair was very messed up, such that my hair was pointed in different directions ...
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How to maintain good boundaries when manipulative co-worker and boss have years-long relationship at previous jobs?
I'm a new senior developer. There's a manager and a junior dev. The junior dev and the manager have worked together at another company and have a strong relationship. This week, the junior dev called ...
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My workmate wants me to teach her art but I would prefer to maintain a work-only boundary [closed]
So I work as a graphic designer and I'm also a very good visual artist. I paint and draw quite well, recently my coworker noticed my talents online and ever since she has become obsessed with the ...
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How should I handle a senior colleague who speaks disparagingly?
I've got a senior colleague, whom I can't get along with too well. We've had some bad interactions when I just joined the company, because he just throws everything he thinks out in the wild, without ...
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How should I address disruptive office behaviors diplomatically? [duplicate]
I recently started a new job and share an office with a colleague who has some disruptive habits. While he is a friendly and helpful individual, there are two specific behaviors that are affecting my ...
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Trips in a colleague's car (smoker)
One of my colleagues is a heavy smoker. We sometimes go together to customer appointments (approx. 1 hour's drive in one direction). We don't have company cars. He offers me then a lift in his car. In ...
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Cold-messaged by a colleague's spouse to get mentorship
I've recently received a cold message from a colleague's spouse, writing that they've heard my "name from <my colleague's name> over the meetings", asking for mentorship to help them (...
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How to deal with a client who is constantly distrustful towards me?
I work as a freelance web developer. There is one important client that I'm currently doing a large project for. Most of the time he is easy going and friendly, but there have been many times he ...
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How should I let the custodian know that he needs to stop mopping our floors with dirty water?
I have noticed that the new custodian in our workplace often mops our floors with dirty water. The water in the mop bucket is usually dark and it sometimes smells bad. I have never seen him stop ...
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Would I be jeopardizing a working relationship if I voiced my displeasure with a coworkers actions?
I work in the United States. I have been working with a co-worker, Jane, for 9 months. We do similar work. She has over 30 years of experience on the job. She is an invaluable resource. I can ask her ...
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How can I ask my senior male manager to coffee with me?
I am intern in the niche finance firm where everyone knows each other because it is so small. He is 10 years older than me and my senior but not my direct boss. I will leave the firm soon, in less ...