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Do you have a hard time staying on task? Do you constantly leave things on your to-do list till the last minute? If so, you’re likely procrastinating, and it's probably preventing you from reaching your full potential. We spoke with life and mindfulness coaches and academic tutors to learn how to overcome procrastination and why it happens in the first place. Keep reading to break free of old habits and finally start crossing items off your to-do lists!
How do you stop procrastinating?
Life coach Wendy Lynne says to identify the root cause of your procrastination first. Usually, it stems from fear or anxiety. Once you address whatever is holding you back, it will be easier to move ahead with your task. Here are some more tips:
- Write a to-do list to visualize your goals.
- Schedule at least 30 minutes in your calendar for important tasks.
- Break large tasks down into smaller steps.
- Start your day with the hardest task to get it out of the way.
- Prioritize goals with set deadlines.
- Work in a distraction-free space.
Steps
How to Deal with Procrastination
- 1Discover the root cause of your procrastination. There's almost certainly a reason behind your tendency to put off important tasks. You might think it's laziness, but Lynne says it's usually fear of something (like failure or disappointing someone else). You might also feel like you simply don't have the resources to do it properly. Whatever the reason, Lynne says that until you address the root cause, "you’re just applying a band-aid."[1] In other words, you're just going to continue procrastinating.
- We’ll explain more common reasons that people procrastinate below.
Meet the wikiHow Experts
Wendy Lynne is a life coach who helps individuals break free from fear to live a fulfilling and happy life. She was named a top coach by CoachFoundation.com.
Alyssa Chang is a life coach who specializes in neuroscience. She helps clients improve their brain-body connections to heal and reach goals.
Amber Rosenberg, PCC, is a life coach with 20+ years of experience. She trained with the Coaches Training Institute and is a member of the International Coaching Federation (ICF).
Bryce Warwick, JD, is an academic tutor and the president of Warwick Strategies. He offers private tutoring for the GMAT, LSAT, and GRE.
- Write a to-do list to set goals. Life coach Alyssa Chang believes writing tasks down gets them out of your head and makes it easier to strategize your day.[2] Start by making a record of all the tasks you want or need to accomplish. Include short-term chores you need to do daily and weekly, and long-term goals that may take months or years to see through. Every time you complete something on your list, cross it out. That way, you can visualize your progress and feel a sense of achievement.
- Jot this list on paper or in the Notes app on your smartphone—whatever is more convenient!
- Avoid making a long, disorganized to-do list. This is just setting yourself up for failure. Instead, create subcategories like "Home," "Work," "Family," and "Fun." Try to cross off a few entries from each list every day.
Advertisement - Schedule at least 30 minutes or longer for important tasks. Tell yourself you’ve only got to work on a given task from your to-do list for 30 minutes, and block off that time somewhere in your calendar. "This process is called chunking," explains life coach Amber Rosenberg, PCC. "You go through your to-do list, and you schedule meetings with yourself at non-negotiable dates and times." She adds that "it's not realistic to get anything done in less than half an hour," so give yourself at least that long.[3] If you finish one task before the 30 minutes are up, move on to another task.
- If 30 minutes still sounds too intimidating, start with 15 minutes to warm yourself up.
- Once the timer goes off, take a 5-minute break if you need it. Then, start another 30 minutes of work.
- Break tasks down into smaller steps and work on them one by one. It can be overwhelming to think about finishing a whole essay or completing a week’s worth of tasks. Instead of thinking about everything you have to do as one big obstacle, break it down into smaller, shorter steps. Work on the shortest step first, then a slightly longer step, and before you know it, you'll be making great progress toward the finish line.[4]
- For example, instead of thinking, "I need to finish this essay before 10 PM tonight," tell yourself, "I’m going to make a short outline, fill that in, and then look for quotes."
- Start your day with the hardest tasks. Look at your daily or weekly to-do list and pick the hardest task first, when your energy is highest. You’ll feel better once it’s done, and then you can move on to easier tasks for the rest of the day.[5]
- Keep in mind that this strategy isn’t for everyone, so stick to tackling your most difficult tasks whenever you feel the most motivated.
- For instance, if you're a morning person, do your toughest work right after you wake up. On the other hand, if you tend to be groggy in the morning, you risk making careless errors or frustration by going headfirst into a difficult task.
- Prioritize goals with set deadlines. Try using a strategy like the Eisenhower Box for prioritizing your tasks. Categorize everything you have to do into 4 categories: tasks that must be done immediately, tasks that can be done later (or rescheduled), tasks that can be delegated to someone else, and tasks that aren't important and can be eliminated. The strength of this strategy is that it not only helps you track tasks that you must complete in a given day, but also on longer timescales, like weeks or months.[6]
- Use a planner to schedule your time and stay motivated.
- Work in a distraction-free space. Where you do your work or task can play a big part in how motivated you feel. Academic tutor Bryce Warwick, JD, suggests finding a quiet place "away from the kinds of things that are going to distract you." He says you may have to travel away from home to find that space, even if it's inconvenient.[7] The library, for example, is a great place to go because it's not usually very noisy.
- Some people concentrate better in busy places like coffee shops and cafes. Something about the vibe or the background noise helps them stay focused. Plus, they can reward themselves with food and drinks while they work!
- If quiet places like the library aren't working for you, take your study or work materials to a local coffee shop, and see if the change in environment helps your productivity.
- Eliminate digital distractions from your smartphone and computer. If you're working on your smartphone or computer, it can be tempting to open up other apps and browsers instead of working on the task at hand. To help you lock in, Rosenberg recommends turning off all distractions, even going so far as to turn off your phone (if possible)![8] You can also download the apps and browser extensions below to help you resist the temptation to doomscroll or spiral down a Google rabbit hole:
- For smartphones, try these apps:[9]
- For laptops and computers, try these browser extensions:[10]
- Freedom blocks distractions on all your devices at once.
- Self-Control blocks a list of websites for set amounts of time.
- Cold Turkey Blocker schedules system-wide blocking.
- Pro tip: If you know you won't be able to resist getting on your phone no matter what, put it in a different room. This also goes for other devices like iPads and Kindles.
- Reader Poll: We asked 298 wikiHow readers if social media distracts them from things they’d rather be doing with their time, and 86% of them said yes. [Take Poll]
- Listen to music without lyrics to help you concentrate. Many people struggle to work and stay focused in a completely silent room, but listening to popular songs could have you singing along rather than completing your task. So, opt for white noise, nature sounds, or instrumental music to help you stay on task.[11]
- Promise yourself a reward. "Treat things like watching TV or playing around online as rewards for finishing your work," suggests academic tutor Jennifer Kaifesh. "Don’t let yourself do it until you’ve completed all of your assignments."[12] Use this anticipation to motivate yourself to complete the task, so you can enjoy your reward guilt-free.
- Treat yourself to eating a meal at your favorite restaurant, seeing a movie with a friend, or buying yourself something you’ve always wanted.
- Be careful not to over-reward yourself. Stick with small, end-of-the-day rewards for daily tasks (like studying), and save big celebrations for when you accomplish something tremendous (like passing your final exam).
- Give yourself a pep talk. "Self-talking" is a great way to calm yourself down and get focused. Using positive self-talk can even help you meet your goals. Talk to yourself, using your name, and remind yourself that you can (and will) do the task on your to-do list.
- Say something like, "Dariel, I know this week has been hard, and you’re tired. You’ve written a million essays before, and you’ll rock this."[13]
- You can also ask yourself questions: "Amari, why are you nervous about this? You know you can handle it."
- Self-talk out loud when you're alone and in your head if you’re in a public place.
- Stop punishing yourself for procrastinating. Do your best to avoid getting angry with yourself. Guilt and regret are draining emotions and can easily leave you feeling tired and frustrated rather than motivated. Instead, focus on the task at hand and set your emotions aside.[14]
- Aim for completion over perfection. Break your procrastination habit by aiming to finish a task or project rather than perfecting it. Remember, you can always go back later and iron out the kinks. But for now, focus on getting the task done.[15]
- Ask someone to hold you accountable. Staying on task and completing your goals doesn’t have to be a solo endeavor. It can be hard to stay away from distractions when you’re doing it alone. Ask a friend or family member if they’d be willing to check in on your work habits and accomplishments. This way, they can help set you back on track if they notice you’re distracted or falling behind.[16]
- Try planning fun outings with each other to reward yourself for meeting your goals.
- Hold accountability meetings each week or month to catch each other up on whether you’re meeting your goals and deadlines.
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Expert Q&A
- QuestionWhat is the main cause of procrastination?
Sharon LeeSharon Lee is a Success Strategist and the Owner of Fearless Pursuits. With over seven years of experience, she specializes in helping others gain clarity on their goals, build confidence, and remain accountable towards their goals. Sharon offers advice to others through life coaching, career coaching, and small business coaching. Sharon holds a Strategic Intervention Coach Certification from Robbins-Madanes Training and has additional training from Erickson Coaching International.
Success Strategist
Procrastination comes out of the obstacles that you fear. If your pain for going through a certain process is greater than the ultimate pleasure you'll get out of it, you won't end up doing it. - QuestionHow can I stop procrastinating if I have trouble with distractions?
Trudi Griffin, LPC, MSTrudi Griffin is a Licensed Professional Counselor based in Wisconsin. She specializes in addictions, mental health problems, and trauma recovery. She has worked as a counselor in both community health settings and private practice. She also works as a writer and researcher, with education, experience, and compassion for people informing her research and writing subjects. She received Bachelor’s degrees in Communications and Psychology from the University of Wisconsin, Green Bay. She also earned an MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Marquette University.
Professional Counselor
Some of the techniques above will help, such as doing your work in environments without distractions and using timers to hyperfocus for 20 minutes at a time. - QuestionHow can I stop procrastinating when I am always stressed and tired?
Trudi Griffin, LPC, MSTrudi Griffin is a Licensed Professional Counselor based in Wisconsin. She specializes in addictions, mental health problems, and trauma recovery. She has worked as a counselor in both community health settings and private practice. She also works as a writer and researcher, with education, experience, and compassion for people informing her research and writing subjects. She received Bachelor’s degrees in Communications and Psychology from the University of Wisconsin, Green Bay. She also earned an MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Marquette University.
Professional Counselor
Identifying and fixing the source of stress may be the first thing you need to do to help the procrastination.
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- If you’re suffering from anxiety or depression associated with your procrastination, talk to your doctor or therapist. It’s okay to ask for help. You don’t have to go through this alone.[24]Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- Turn off the Wi-Fi on your devices and do any work that doesn't involve the internet first. That will help you eliminate the internet and social media as a distraction.
- Make it a game by racing yourself. For example, if you have to clean your room, set a timer for 10 minutes. During that time, try to get as much done as possible.
- Each day, choose 3 important tasks that you need to do. Reward yourself in some way once you've done those things. It will help motivate you to get more done.
References
- ↑ Wendy Lynne. Life Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Alyssa Chang. Life Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Amber Rosenberg, PCC. Life Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://news.uga.edu/break-large-tasks-down-into-smaller-more-manageable-pieces/
- ↑ https://eoss.asu.edu/content/easy-ways-stay-organized-and-productive
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/lib/top-tips-for-setting-goals-and-priorities
- ↑ Bryce Warwick, JD. Academic Tutor. Expert Interview
- ↑ Amber Rosenberg, PCC. Life Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://www.pcworld.com/article/443724/read-this-now-7-clever-mobile-apps-to-conquer-procrastination.html
- ↑ https://zapier.com/blog/stay-focused-avoid-distractions/
- ↑ https://www.nu.edu/blog/can-music-help-you-study-and-focus/
- ↑ Jennifer Kaifesh. Academic Tutor. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/201505/the-voice-reason
- ↑ https://www.npr.org/2021/01/11/955692434/procrastination-is-more-than-putting-things-off-heres-how-to-kick-the-habit
- ↑ https://writingcenter.unc.edu/tips-and-tools/procrastination/
- ↑ https://www.colorado.edu/health/blog/goal-setting
- ↑ Wendy Lynne. Life Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Wendy Lynne. Life Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Annie Lin, MBA. Life & Career Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Christina Stathopoulos, PCC, ACCC. Certified Leadership & Life Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Chad Herst, CPCC. Mindfulness Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ Sharon Lee. Success Strategist. Expert Interview
- ↑ Eden Gold. Teen Life Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://caps.ku.edu/procrastination
About This Article
To stop procrastinating, turn off your phone and play white noise or music without lyrics to help you focus. Break your task into small chunks that you can tackle one by one and work hard for 15-minute intervals, giving yourself short breaks in between to help you stay on task. Aim to finish the task, not make it perfect—you can always fix it when you’re done. Give yourself a quick pep talk to get you going and promise yourself a reward, like a sweet treat or funny video, when you’re all done. If you want to learn how to make a distraction-free space where you can focus on work, keep reading the article!
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